allow change adaptive sync in outputmgrapplyortest()

Merge remote-tracking branch 'upstream/main' into wlroots-next

fix crash in dirtomon() when selmon is disabled

closemon() now updates selmon if needed

use just one loop in outputmgrapplyortest()

we do the magic in updatemons()

move focus and clients off disabled monitors

only raise the client's node in monocle()

Fixes: https://github.com/djpohly/dwl/issues/326

sort util.c functions

limit the line length to 79 in the readme

mention the polkit dependency when using elogind or systemd-logind

Bug: https://github.com/djpohly/dwl/issues/138

add support for the ext-idle-notify-v1 protocol

for now we use macros to support both KDE idle and ext-idle, wlroots will
likely drop support for KDE idle in 0.17

Revert "stop trying resize clients during commitnotify()"

This reverts commit 2d9d758c8dec083178ff78b154da784b97260bd1.

wasn't meant to be pushed to main

update comment about exclusive focus in focusclient()

stop trying resize clients during commitnotify()

instead resize them in configurex11()

allow unmanaged clients (like dzen or dmenu) to have keyboard focus

delete the idle protocol xml file

disable and destroy monitor's layer surfaces when it's being destroyed

Fixes: https://github.com/djpohly/dwl/issues/314

use `/* */` for comments in applybounds()

fix bad indentation in createpointer()

rename dragicondestroy() -> destroydragicon()

to match the rest of the code